Your first vibrator: a no-blush beginner's guide

Buying your first vibrator can feel like a big step, and that's completely normal. The good news: there's no wrong answer, only what suits you. This guide walks through the main types, what to look for, and how to pick one without the guesswork.

The main types, simply explained

• Bullet vibrators are small, simple and usually the most affordable. They're great for external use and easy to travel with.
• Rabbit vibrators have two parts, an internal shaft and an external arm, so they stimulate in two places at once.
• G-spot vibrators have a curved tip designed to reach the front wall of the vagina.
• Wand vibrators are larger, with a rounded head and deep, powerful vibrations. They're popular for full-body massage too.
• Suction or "air pulse" toys use gentle pulses of air instead of direct vibration. Many people find them more intense than they expect.
• Wearable and app-controlled toys can be worn hands-free or controlled from a phone, so they're good for couples and long-distance play.

What to look for

Body-safe materials. Look for medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, glass or stainless steel. These are non-porous, so they're easy to clean properly.

Noise. If you share a home, check the description for a quiet or "whisper" motor.

Rechargeable or batteries. USB-rechargeable toys are more convenient and cheaper to run. Battery toys are handy for travel and usually cost less up front.

Waterproof or splash-proof. Waterproof means bath and shower friendly, and much easier to clean.

What should I spend?

• Under £25: a simple rechargeable bullet, such as the Mina Whisper (£24.99), is a brilliant low-risk first buy.
• £25 to £80: more speeds and patterns, better motors and quieter running.
• £80 and up: premium brands such as LELO and Svakom, with rich, deep vibrations, app control and long warranties.

A few tips for first-timers

1. Start on the lowest setting and work up.
2. Use a water-based lube, which is safe with every toy material.
3. Clean your toy before the first use and after every use.
4. Take your time. There's no "right" way to use it.

Discreet from checkout to doorstep

Every Toy Glory order ships in a plain, unbranded parcel with nothing on the outside to say what's inside. If you've got questions before you buy, email steve@toyglory.uk and a real person will help.