Play together: bringing a toy into the bedroom

Adding a toy to your relationship isn't a sign that something's missing. For many couples it's simply a fun way to try something new together. Here's how to bring it up, what to start with, and how to keep it relaxed.

Bringing it up

• Pick a relaxed moment, not in the middle of things. A cosy evening or a walk works well.
• Make it about "us", not about something lacking: "I saw this and thought it could be fun for both of us."
• Browse together. Looking through a category side by side takes the pressure off and turns it into a shared decision.
• Agree that either of you can say no, to the idea or to any product, without it being a big deal.

Great couples' toys to start with

• Vibrating love rings: small, easy to use and designed for both partners. The Tabooboo Between You and Me ring is a good first choice.
• Wearable vibrators: hands-free toys you can wear during sex, many with app or remote control, like the Svakom Erica.
• App-controlled toys: one partner holds the controls. They're great for teasing, and for long-distance couples too.
• Games and dice: a low-pressure way in. Position dice or a 30-day foreplay challenge make trying new things feel playful.

Ideas for every comfort level

1. Just curious: a massage candle or oil, a blindfold, or a game night with foreplay dice.
2. Ready to try: a vibrating love ring or a small bullet vibrator used together.
3. Adventurous: an app-controlled wearable for date night, or a beginner's bondage kit.

Keep it comfortable

• Use plenty of water-based lube. It's safe with every toy material and every condom.
• Start on the lowest setting and talk as you go.
• Laugh when things don't go to plan. It's part of the fun.

Afterwards

Check in with each other: what did you enjoy, and what would you change next time? Then clean your toy with warm water and a toy cleaner, and store it in its pouch.

Every Toy Glory order arrives in plain, unbranded packaging, so there are no awkward surprises at the door.