App-controlled toys: are they worth it?

App-controlled toys connect to your phone by Bluetooth, turning your phone into a remote with far more options than a couple of buttons. But are they worth the extra money? Here's what they really do.

What the apps can do

• Custom patterns: create and save your own vibration rhythms, or pick from a library of presets.
• Fine control: many apps offer more intensity levels than the buttons on the toy itself.
• Music and sound sync: some toys pulse in time with music or your voice.
• Remote play: hand control to a partner in the same room, or over the internet.

Great for long-distance relationships

With most apps, a partner can control your toy from anywhere with an internet connection, often alongside a video or voice call. For couples who spend time apart, it's a genuinely different way to stay close.

Privacy tips

• Use a strong, unique password if the app asks you to create an account.
• Check the app's permissions and only allow what it needs.
• Only share remote-control links with someone you trust, and end sessions when you're done.
• Keep the app and the toy's firmware up to date.

Do you need one?

If you mainly play solo and like simple controls, a good button-controlled toy is all you need. If you love variety, play with a partner, or spend time apart, app control is worth it.

Our favourite picks

• LELO Ina Thrust: a thrusting rabbit with 16 intensities, 8 modes and app control.
• Svakom Phoenix Neo 2: an interactive vibrator with app control.
• LELO Tor 3: an app-controlled cock ring designed for couples.
• Svakom Ella Neo: an interactive vibrating egg, ideal for discreet, remote play.

Every app-controlled toy works on its own buttons too, so you're never stuck if your phone is flat.